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Using Co-Mediation to Enhance Divorce Mediation

Attending mediation is one of the best decisions the parties can make during their divorce. During mediation, a third party neutral, called a mediator, helps the parties create their own settlement agreement on issues involving their children, their property, and even some future issues that may arise, such as the relocation of a parent. Mediation

Parenting Plan Tune-Ups

When parents divorce, a parenting plan will be created that designates how certain issues regarding the children will be handled.  Sometimes, this parenting plan is drafted by the parents, and other times, if the parents cannot agree, the courts will order a parenting plan on their behalf. Parenting plans can be as detailed as the

Divorce Mediation: A Gentle Alternative to a Bitter Process

After a divorce trial, the parties are often exhausted, emotional, and financially drained.  They have likely spent hours preparing for trial with their attorneys, have endured intense cross-examination on the witness stand, and have nervously awaited the judge’s decision.  Additionally, they may have spent several thousand dollars or more in legal fees. Many parties have

Divorce Mediation and Domestic Violence

Unfortunately, domestic violence is a growing problem in the country.  It is common in various cultures and impacts both wealthy and poor families.  Often, outsiders have no idea that their friends and loved ones are suffering abuse.  One disturbing statistic reports that three women are murdered in the United States every single day by a

Children, Divorce and the Holidays

One of the most painful parts of a divorce is losing time with one’s children.  Until the divorce, the family has spent most of their time in one home, and the thought of not being with your children for all of the holidays has probably not even come up.  However, after a divorce, the parents

Protecting The Kids During and after The Divorce

Many parents are unaware of the damage a divorce can cause for their children, even if the divorce is not especially hostile.  Children are very sensitive to the feelings of their parents, so it is important that they are protected during this difficult time. You and your spouse must communicate directly.  You must never communicate

How To Create A Successful Parenting Plan

Losing time with one’s children is the most painful part of a divorce.  It is easy to lose sight of what is in the best interests of your children because you want to save as much time with them as possible.  However, you will need to learn how to co-parent peacefully with your ex-spouse, and

When You Mediate Your Divorce You Begin with The Result End in Mind

The purpose of divorce mediation is to reach a settlement.  The parties are encouraged to collaborate and create an agreement that is tailored to their specific needs.  A divorce settlement may affect your life for many years, especially if you have children together.  Therefore, it is important not to think only about current issues, but

Divorce Mediation: Gentle Alternative To A Bitter Process

Divorces are a painful experience, even for those couples that remain friends.  To increase the odds of an amicable split, many couples have turned to divorce mediation to resolve their issues and settle their case.  Parties often leave mediation with a stronger ability to communicate than if they -allowed their case go to trial. Mediation